Fun Romantic Questions

It can’t hurt to have a few fun romantic questions up your sleeve for that second or third date. Yeah, first dates are for small talk and first impressions, but once the two of you get to know one another you’ll need to be able to ask questions that show you’re interested in your date — why not also throw in a little romance? Remember that not all “romantic” questions are sexual in nature, but drifting into sexual territory’s not completely forbidden.

Here are fifty fun romantic questions to ask your new (or even your old!) lover.

  1. What is your idea of a perfect date?
  2. Do you believe in soul mates?
  3. Do you believe in love at first sight?
  4. What’s the difference between love and romance?
  5. What’s the difference between having sex and making love?
  6. Do you think men or women are more romantic?
  7. What is your favorite part of a man (or woman’s) body?
  8. What is the most romantic thing you’ve ever done?
  9. Are you into PDA (Public Displays of Affection) ?
  10. What is the difference between “sexy” and “handsome”/”pretty”?
  11. Do you have a secret fantasy?
  12. What is your favorite thing to hear during sex?
  13. What are the most sensitive parts of your body?
  14. What is the best relationship advice you’ve ever gotten / given?
  15. What makes you sad?
  16. What makes you happy?
  17. Would you ever go skinny dipping?
  18. Have you ever wanted to have sex in an outlandish location?
  19. What are three adjectives that describe you?
  20. What are three adjectives that you think describe me?
  21. Where do you see yourself in five years?
  22. After you die, how do you want people to remember you?
  23. Do you believe that life is black and white or are there shades of gray?
  24. How do you like your partner to dress in bed? Lingerie / nude / plain, etc.
  25. How many times a week should a couple make love?
  26. What was your first impression of me?
  27. Where do you dream of travelling?
  28. What was your first crush like?
  29. Do you like to spoon?
  30. What do you like to do on a lazy Sunday morning?
  31. What food do you think is erotic?
  32. If you had a magic lamp, what three wishes would you make?
  33. What’s the most embarrassing thing that ever happened to you?
  34. Have you ever been attracted to a member of the same sex?
  35. What is your favorite part of your body?
  36. What is your favorite part of my body?
  37. Would you ever choose lust over love?
  38. Which guides you — your heart or your head?
  39. What is the worst date you’ve ever been on?
  40. If we were stranded on a desert island, what one item would you want to have  with you?
  41. If you could relive one day of your life, what would it be?
  42. Do you think men or women are more horny?
  43. Is there a movie that makes you cry every time you watch it?
  44. If we could be any famous couple in history, who would we be?
  45. Do you like to leave the lights on or off during sex?
  46. What’s the funniest thing that’s ever happened to you in the bedroom?
  47. If  you could change one thing about me, honestly, what would it be?
  48. What’s your favorite romantic movie?
  49. What celebrity do you fantasize about?
  50. Can you show me your bedroom?

Okay, so that last one is a bit forward — the point is, any question can turn fun and romantic depending on your tone of voice and the depth of your relationship. This kind of intimate talking almost always leads to romance. Arm yourself with a lot of fun romantic questions and you and your partner will find yourselves much closer to one another.